Am I a bitch?
13 years ago
General
I feel like I might be, I remember being close to all these furs here and since I've been here I feel as if I've isolated myself or did something to push people away from me... Is it just me or did I do something.
Feel free to post the honest truth or PM me about it if you want..
Lou
Feel free to post the honest truth or PM me about it if you want..
Lou
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Bitch (noun, adj.)
1.Someone who is both bossy and stubborn without regard to other peoples feelings or opinions;
2.A male or female who does not "give a fuck" about anyone or anything.
you don't fall under any of the above in my books so no, I wouldn't think of you as a bitch ^_^
And hey if you are then I am too, I isolate myself from everybody all the time. D:
Bitches are purposefully bitchy you see. *Hug hugs* Don't think so negatively of yourself you. :3
Hope to see you soon lov
Bitch (bch)
2. Offensive
a. A woman considered to be spiteful or overbearing.
b. A lewd woman.
c. A man considered to be weak or contemptible.
3. Slang A complaint.
4. Slang Something very unpleasant or difficult.
Nowhere is 'stubborn' or 'isolated' near the attitude that comes near that definition. As a point of fact being stubborn is a lot like being proud, it can sometimes be a bad thing, and hinder you when you really should be asking for help, but it's not always bad. It shows a sense of self assurance and the drive to accomplish something ones-self. Sometimes what one person considers a flaw another considers a strength, since it's our down-comings that push us to better ourselves, and make us stronger people for it.
As to isolating yourself...that's only a natural reaction for someone who's afraid to get hurt or caught up in becoming disappointed and let down by other people. The most withdrawn people I've ever met are always the ones who need people in their lives and near them the most. I used to be that way myself, years ago, but realizing that you're keeping yourself from fully opening up or letting others close to you is half the battle. If it's something you want to change about yourself identify it and take little steps.
Personally I don't think you have too much of an issue letting people close to you, and giving them chances. After all, I consider you a friend and we've only known each other for a brief time. You've had a rough life, kiddo, you know full well it's important to keep yourself safe first and foremost. That should be your priority. People who drift away...they'll either return to you in time, or they won't. It's kind of a harsh truth, but treasure the good times over the thoughts of absence. Focus on the things that have and do make you happy.
Well...I think that's all I had to say...I'm done monopolizing yer page now. @_n;;