So after a lot of thinking. I thought I was about time I told my family I'm gay. How would I go about even beginning to tell them. Oh here's the best part, as if it was some kind of drama play. My dad and grandmother are anti-gay. Competely. My mother has no problem at all. But she lives in Washington. Now, My dad knows he can't control a persons life and doesn't try, but my grandmother on the other hand. I'm afraid she will convence him into shutting me off from everyone. Should I even tell them? I'm going to have to sooner or later. And I feel like I should before I move to Portland. I need some advice. How to I tell them? How do I even start with this.

Seriously this is a big issue that I'm needing help with, and I need real people to help me with this.