My dad's fiance/lover just got word to my IRL bros, who got word to my mom and then got word to ME that my dad has been rushed to a hospital after he started talking "incoherently", crying and/or saying something about his mother/my grandma who passed away years ago to that god-awful disease Alzheimer.

There is a chance I will lose my dad to that god-awful disease but even so, I cant wish I would like to lose my dad in ANYWAY whatsoever because all the OTHER possible causes of death are far from "pretty". (the other being heart attack-related)

EDIT - More news on my dad's condition.

Apparently his condition have to do with stress at work, depression and the fact that my dad (according to his fiance/lover) hasn't been taking his anti-depressants. From what I heard from my bro after coming back home he remembers everything. He's still in the hospital and aside from still saying incoherent things they tell me he's randomly becoming aggressive.

My little bro wants to go visit him because he cant be left alone due to being aggressive now and because his fiance/lover hasn't slept for 2 days keeping an eye on him so we are literally taking turns watching him. My mom wants me to go next and frankly... I dont want to... I mean, I do NOT deal well or like to deal with these sort of mental things, even if its for the sake of a family member. Because of this it has come o anyones attention that if my dad turns aggressive an ATTACKS me, I could be fucked.

Im not looking forward to this and the few next to come...