Lately I've kind of been getting on myself about not speaking with a lot of my friends as often as I'd like. Due in part to general life stress and limited availability, I still feel I should try a but harder. Typically I don;'t like bugging people and don't know if its a good time when I call, so I usually wait to be the one contacted

However, I feel much better when I stop and think about the friends that I have and worry about. Thing is, no matter how long we go without talking, once we DO speak we can carry on a conversation as if no time has passed. There's no hard feelings, no "Why haven't you gotten ahold of me before now?", no drama. I have a lot of pals like this, and its great because that's one way that I can tell I have a true friend

Not saying that people who get a bit ticked at not talking forever are bad friends, its understandable if they are. I' just saying the ones who act like its nothing and don't consider it a big deal really make me smile because of it. Because nobody needs that extra amount of drama in their life, and its good to know I have friends like this~