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11 years ago
Been going though some personal drama with the EX that somehow got posted public on U-18Chan. I share what I wanted to overall explain (but din't know how) that was posted on the site.
The root of his problem with her, is probably stemming from the child.
From what it looks like, they had this kid when they were still teens. Late teen, very early 20's at the best bet. But still an age that is Too Damn Young to be having Children. As I've read, it seemed the Husband, didn't put a rubber on his cock, knocked the woman up, was forced to marry her so the child wouldn't be a bastard, and probably resented her for the fact that his life was now Ruined by the kid he's forced to love.
This is backed up by the reports of what happened between them prior to the divorce. Staying up all night to play games and watch porn isn't something a responsible father and husband does. Having a shitfit when your porn computer is taken away from you, and renting a separate apt just so you can keep your routine, is also not something a responsible father and husband does.
&&& TL:DR Segment: They were way to young to pop out a kid, and the father couldn't be a carefree post-teen anymore.
I can't confirm this, but it looks like Neither of them seem to have any post secondary education, which means your options for jobs is going to be Highly limited to minimum wage. Add in the Scientology aspect, and you can understand that his family is looking fairly well off financially compared to hers. And is backed by the rabid attack dogs of the Cult who hound anyone they deem a threat to the Cult. Even if she could have taken care of the child, they would have taken a potential cultist from her by heavy legal force.
And that, the thing with custody is that, yes, an overwhelming majority of women get the kids in a divorce. But the overwhelming majority of divorces that occur with children of an age that need to settle custody happen between Adults who have Stable Jobs. When you're in your early 20's without any post secondary education, trying to eek out a living on Minimum wage. It's just not possible without family support. Of which she seemed to have little, while the father seemed to have everything. Owing again to their connections to the Cult.
&&& TL:DR Segment: With neither having a decent job to earn a decent living, it would mean that the kid would automatically go to the more affluent family.
As to the claims of Child Support Shenanigans. I just looked up the laws on CA Child Support and in less then 10min found that the claims of the Father are totally bullshit.
*** DIRECT SNIP FROM THEIR CHILD SUPPORT BOOKLET ***
"Most court-ordered child support payments are made through employer income withholding --- when an employer deducts court-ordered child support payments from an employee's paycheck."
*** THIS IS A FEDERAL AND STATE LAW ***
This means that the Father IS receiving his support, because it's NOT UP TO THE MOTHER to dish it out. If he ISN'T receiving his payments, then he should contact Services to find out why They are dicking around with it.
&&& TL:DR Segment: idk this seems pretty straight forward that the Father is BSing everything.
Now, about criticism of her actual work. Yes, I believe it is of a quality that could be used to generate income. Is she as good as people like Wolfy-Nail or Miu, not really. But she is of a quality that is at least above the multitude of crap out there, and could be considered Good.
Another point I keep hearing is how long it takes her to generate content. Frankly, I don't see this as an issue at all. So fuckin what if it takes her a while to pop out comics. Every artist has a Real Life they need to prioritize First, before they can indulge their creativity and generate content. From what I've seen however, her Real Life is filled with Bullshit, mainly sourcing from her Ex Husband, his Family, and whatever sheep and sock puppets they can drum up to Harass her. Of course she's going to take a full year to turn out 10 pages under such appalling conditions.
&&& TL:DR Segment: If you can draw better poon, while having a rabid badger on your back, then By all means, Do so.
So that's what my personal life has been. Now on with the arts. ^^;
The root of his problem with her, is probably stemming from the child.
From what it looks like, they had this kid when they were still teens. Late teen, very early 20's at the best bet. But still an age that is Too Damn Young to be having Children. As I've read, it seemed the Husband, didn't put a rubber on his cock, knocked the woman up, was forced to marry her so the child wouldn't be a bastard, and probably resented her for the fact that his life was now Ruined by the kid he's forced to love.
This is backed up by the reports of what happened between them prior to the divorce. Staying up all night to play games and watch porn isn't something a responsible father and husband does. Having a shitfit when your porn computer is taken away from you, and renting a separate apt just so you can keep your routine, is also not something a responsible father and husband does.
&&& TL:DR Segment: They were way to young to pop out a kid, and the father couldn't be a carefree post-teen anymore.
I can't confirm this, but it looks like Neither of them seem to have any post secondary education, which means your options for jobs is going to be Highly limited to minimum wage. Add in the Scientology aspect, and you can understand that his family is looking fairly well off financially compared to hers. And is backed by the rabid attack dogs of the Cult who hound anyone they deem a threat to the Cult. Even if she could have taken care of the child, they would have taken a potential cultist from her by heavy legal force.
And that, the thing with custody is that, yes, an overwhelming majority of women get the kids in a divorce. But the overwhelming majority of divorces that occur with children of an age that need to settle custody happen between Adults who have Stable Jobs. When you're in your early 20's without any post secondary education, trying to eek out a living on Minimum wage. It's just not possible without family support. Of which she seemed to have little, while the father seemed to have everything. Owing again to their connections to the Cult.
&&& TL:DR Segment: With neither having a decent job to earn a decent living, it would mean that the kid would automatically go to the more affluent family.
As to the claims of Child Support Shenanigans. I just looked up the laws on CA Child Support and in less then 10min found that the claims of the Father are totally bullshit.
*** DIRECT SNIP FROM THEIR CHILD SUPPORT BOOKLET ***
"Most court-ordered child support payments are made through employer income withholding --- when an employer deducts court-ordered child support payments from an employee's paycheck."
*** THIS IS A FEDERAL AND STATE LAW ***
This means that the Father IS receiving his support, because it's NOT UP TO THE MOTHER to dish it out. If he ISN'T receiving his payments, then he should contact Services to find out why They are dicking around with it.
&&& TL:DR Segment: idk this seems pretty straight forward that the Father is BSing everything.
Now, about criticism of her actual work. Yes, I believe it is of a quality that could be used to generate income. Is she as good as people like Wolfy-Nail or Miu, not really. But she is of a quality that is at least above the multitude of crap out there, and could be considered Good.
Another point I keep hearing is how long it takes her to generate content. Frankly, I don't see this as an issue at all. So fuckin what if it takes her a while to pop out comics. Every artist has a Real Life they need to prioritize First, before they can indulge their creativity and generate content. From what I've seen however, her Real Life is filled with Bullshit, mainly sourcing from her Ex Husband, his Family, and whatever sheep and sock puppets they can drum up to Harass her. Of course she's going to take a full year to turn out 10 pages under such appalling conditions.
&&& TL:DR Segment: If you can draw better poon, while having a rabid badger on your back, then By all means, Do so.
So that's what my personal life has been. Now on with the arts. ^^;
TRAIN
~train
Is this you or someone else?
Dark_Nurse
~darknurse
OP
Someone else. I thank for seeing the overall situation and able to post a very well thought out and reasonable response.
TRAIN
~train
Oh okay.
thunderstallion
~thunderstallion
Looks like we're all throught some kind of drama these days... but i'm happy to see there is at least SOME smart folks on u18chan. At least smarter than me...
Dark_Nurse
~darknurse
OP
Thank goodness for the ones that can see the big picture and able to explain it so clearly. I am forever grateful for this. It really saved me from emotional despair.
Marbles
~marbles
Glad to hear it's slowly getting sorted out.
Dark_Nurse
~darknurse
OP
Right? I know I should have ignored it all, but It was difficult to ignore when It was personal (especially when a lot of it were lies from the EX). Art bashing whatever. They are free to have opinions and I can learn from some if it. All I wanted to do was defend myself from the EX (that has been ranting on public forms for the past 7 years now) the best way I can, with art recently at my blog. But this comment I shared was all I really wanted for folks to see and understand what happened, since It got all public and all...
