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10 years ago
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I'm tired of it, the whole thing is upsetting me at the moment. Fact is that I'm a slutty whore and sleep around yet also wish for the security and comfort I can get from a mate, my somewhat stupid solution was to become a mate to anyone I felt attached to. This whole thing has collapsed and Imploded and I'm lower than I've been in quite a while (Read: Post-Breakup) I'm so confused and upset at myself. It seems nobody I've met bar a select (literal) few that I would really actually like to settle down with, my problem is that I love and care for all these people I've grown attached to. I almost feel like I should hold a contest, but that's both stupid and douchey. I have no clue what to do, someone give me advice. I'm in Australia as well, its even more lonely and depressing when those few people you want to spend time with are several thousand miles away, that issue hits hardest of all.
When you're meant to settle with someone, you'll know it. There'll be no doubt, no competition from others.
There's no harm in being single, especially if you have dear friends and those you can be intimate with.
Just try and take each day as it comes, you'll find someone just as they'll find you. :3
Make sure you really know the person before you give them your heart.
I can't really know anybody around here that has an interest in me, I'm all too eager to give my heart away to whoever says they'll keep it safe and loved..
You have your friends and lovers. There'll be little difference in rushing into a relationship, save subjecting yourself to the potential of being hurt a lot more.
Find someone special, but don't trawl through everyone to do it.
As fluffy said, you can't rush love. Personally, i don't beleive in the base concept of love because i feel it's been biased and warped by modern humanity, but eh, to each thier own. For now, i would love consistent snuggles from almost anyone, but am slowly working to improve my own life, so that kind of has to have some stupid form of priority.