... H really needs something more than "stop that" to actually make an argument here.

She's asking what the alternative is, and this is not an answer to that critical question.

I don't know why but this honestly kinda resonates with me and some of my mental health struggles. It's hard admitting that you can't be "Normal" because of things you went through in life when what you want is just to be "Normal" and "Fit in" with what you see other people having.

I get H's point that she needs to accept the reality of the situation, I also get Moira feeling cheated because no one else has to go through the same struggle.

Yeah, you can't just tell her what she should do, but some solid suggestions are needed. Brow beating her and telling her she fucked up isn't helping. What was the alternative? If you are so certain this is the wrong way, and it does seem to be tbf, what is a "right way"?