...y u mad tho?

get out

...y u mad tho?

k lol

Erm...was that directed at someone?

I think I get it now. She wants to be a dude or something.

If Blau considers himself a dude, then why not just call him a dude. And refer to him as a him since that's what he prefers and would feel more comfortable with.

I actually have friends who identify with the opposite gender and I totally respect them because they don't piss and moan about it.

Life is tough. I wish I were a natural blonde. I don't rant about it.

The thing is though, you have to realize how much dysphoria your friends might go through. Mileages vary between people. Some people will handle it differently. It's sad and unfortunate Blau feels the way he does and feels the need to post vent art. But who are we to judge? We're not all equipped the same way to handle these struggles and if this is what will help ease the pain a little, all the more power to him :B

It looks less like venting and more like crying for attention. I've seen plenty of people overreact to get attention, and she's not doing much to convince me otherwise.

Seriously, look at all these other comments. She be fishin' for 'em.

If you have a problem, solve it or talk to a friend. Asking the internet to kiss your ass is never a good idea.

Tell it like it is!

Why are you still calling him a she?

Also, again, dysphoria, a serious psychological disorder.

I also think it's unfair to call it a cry for attention. Being born in the wrong body can be a severe problem. People have fallen into distressing mental states and have even gone so far as self harm and suicide.

Because, to me, being male constitutes having a penis. Sorry. You must be this cocked to ride the mantrain.

And I'm not doubting that dysphoria is a serious problem, though on the internet, I immediately dismiss any of psychological disorders. It's just too easy to fake it, call me jaded if you like. I blame the ass-pies.

And hey, how do you know Blau isn't just fucking with everyone? Think about it, she'd be doing a great job of it so far, sparking a debate like this, eh? Then you and me both would've been trolled, eh?

It's the internet, where men are men, women are men (how appropriate) and children are FBI.

1. i am a he

2. why do you think i said that i wished i could disable comments? i hate pity. i am not looking for pity. i don't want asspats and 'omg u r so special'. i hate that shit. pete townshend expresses himself through music, jim morrison expressed himself through poetry, and i am expressing myself through drawing shitty sad dogs

You don't want pity, but you post this on a site crawling with furries, a group that understands being pitiful like no other. Mmk.

i put it up here because this is where i post art
i also put art on deviantart. and tumblr. shit, sometimes even facebook.

and i do that because sometimes i hope maybe i can entice someone into commissioning me for a shitty dog drawing. but that rarely happens, and because i haven't got anything else to do, i spend most of my time listening to old music and drawing sad dogs.

Well I commend you for not whining and/or flaming me mindlessly, at the least. You have demonstrated above average intelligence on the internet and of this occasion I will make a special note.

Maybe they just want to show their art? They specifically said at the beginning that they wanted to be able to disable comments.

I don't post any of my vent art for ass pats. I just worked really hard on a drawing, I share what the drawing is about, and I want to share my work. Plain as that.

This
I feel that posting vent art to the internet is akin to talking to someone about your problems
Idk how to explain it more than that.

so you are saying we should all stop posting vent art? well fcuk you then let's erase over half of the drawings on all art sites

i hope a truck hits you

i really don't want it to kill you, though, i just want it to mangle your body so you can spend the rest of your life reminiscing what it was like to be a fully functional human being in your own capacity

IRONY

Im sorry your friends have you

I don't think being a different hair colour is comparable to being TG and not having anybody to talk to about it.
Sex changes and HRT is way, WAY more time consuming and expensive than a fucking box of hair dye.

Not to mention, you won't get rejected and possibly disowned by your family if you dye your hair blonde.

Your post:
Hi I go on the internet and act like hot shit because nobody can kick my ass here

I wanna play too.

Your post:
Hi I'm a passive ITG who calls people out on the internet because I don't have to try to kick anybody's ass here

Seriously though, it concluded about an hour ago. Why you gotta stir the embers, my man?

Because I hate idiots and intolerant people, of which you are both.

I love how your icon matches how mad you are.

I'm no more mad than I am all the time. In fact, I'm quite pleasantly inebriated.

fuck off please

I feel your pain. =( <3

Oh goodness :( I'm so sorry

It doesn't matter one bit who you are on the outside

*snugs*

I know your pain...
I look in the mirror every day and cry because I know I am a beautiful woman, but I hate my face, I hate my body, I hate the way jaw is shaped and the way my eyes are set...
But someday it will get better, for both of us...
PM me if you want to talk...I'd be nice to chat with someone going through the same thing...

aw man I use to be the same way... for real man I feel ya.

Oh wait, that last part confused me, I thought you were directing this at somebody else, but that "man the fuck up, Blau" wasyou imitating people that make you wish you could disable comments.

no i was just telling myself to man the fuck up
all i do is bawwr and complain about my first world problems and how much i hate my body lol

I can't say I understand your plight, and in all honesty, I've never understood the concept of being trapped in the wrong body, but it's better to let it out than bottle it up.

thanks man, i appreciate it either way.

I hope you can settle this soon, friend.

everyone baaws in the internet. it doesnt matter baaw away my son

Any chance of some sort of therapy session to at least get some advice from someone experienced? I know a list of some by state, and many are confidential and low cost.
Note me if you wanna. I can share some info.

i really, really wish i could talk to a therapist. if i had my own car, i definitely would, but right now i would have to come out to at least my mother... i've been sort of wanting to, but every time i think i'm about to, i change my mind. if i were high, i probably could LOL.

Ahh, transport issues. You're in the middle of nowhere, like me, right? No public transport system?

Sounds like you need to get high, then. No connections around still?

i live in a sort of swampy-wooded area, closest bus... station things are more in the city, i think.
and yeah haha, i seriously wish i could. i only know one guy irl who smokes, but he's forty five minutes away.

Sorry to hear it, dude. I hope you can manage with your mom, soon. Good luck.

wow, people are getting so ass hurt over this image.

omg how dare u to not be the way i think u should be, time to troll

i feel your pain bro and i'm sorry you have to go through that bullshit

just try to ignore dumb fucks like the guy in the comments above

fuck you your body is yours and its beautiful be proud of it

I don't know you and I already wish I could help.

I hope you can find some soon.

I'm sorry you're hurting and I'm sorry people are such fucking ignorant assholes ugh

I CAN RELATE
no, seriously.

well... uh. *hug 'n brofist*

As a fellow boy in stupid girls body, I have to tell you that I know how hard it is to express your emotions to loved ones, on top of understanding them in your own mind... It's a hell most people can never realize... But I want you to know that there's always a way out... Always help and a kind word to be found if you look a bit. Don't worry about the bullshit that most will spout... Trust me people like Ceeb are a large group, but you can overcome them. Don't worry about it... The sad fact is that many will never understand us... I've come to realize that's just fucking fine... let them be stuck in thier little box... It's not on you to saze or convince anyone of anything... But if you need someone to talk to, or like I said, a kind word or even a bro to vent to, I'm your man... just reach out man...

thanks man. although it's really just that i hate myself lol, i don't really care about how other people perceive me

Hey guy. Found you through cannibis group, and was surfin dis gallery and found this. You are a fantastic artist btw. And I too struggled with a thing such as this.

I used to wear nothing but men's clothes, my fursona was a male, etc you catch my drift. I always asked why I'm like this, but the fact was and still is, I am this way. I was born this way. And although I understand gender surgery that's not what I wanted. I'm too much a hippie for that, I was born into this body and I just started telling myself that it was for a reason. What reason I don't know, but I don't believe everything's random, there are things to be learned through every aspect of life.

I think I first found out I was different when at a very young age I refused a pink dress and strapped firecrackers to a barbie with a shaved head and me and the neighborhood little boys blew shit up.

I'm sleep deprived so I'm sorry if I'm not making much sense. Basically I 'girled up' because if I wasn't doing surgery I wanted to be confdent in myself. I learned to like it. My straight fiance helped with that.

I'm not saying you need to change anything. You are male and the only people to see you noodie are you and your mate. But what I AM saying is that life is too short to be displeased and harbor hatred for yourself like this. Some people deal with it, some people do surgery, some people just look like their desired gender and it's their own business. You are what you are, but you shouldn't hate yourself for it. You are not alone, I know many who are prepping for surgery, a few whodress the part, and a few who identify with being androgynous.

I know you really don't want comments or pitty. I'm sorry for commenting if it truly bothers you, and I don't sympathise, I empathise to a degree (how you feel and how I feel are different yet similar to a degree). I just hope that you come to terms with yourself and start seeing the beauty within. I don't give a fuck what your genitals look like, you are who ydegree and self loathing isn't going to anything but make you hate it more. Break the cycle.

I fucking hate this shitty phone keyboard.

Last sentence: *you are who you are

Whoa dude, sorry to see the douchebag comments on this thing.

I feel for you. I hope things get better soon.