Like to think I'm one of the kindest, most honest and patient people. I hate literally no one, and nothing strong enough to call it hate. I'll hold folks, self included, accountable for behavior be it good or bad, and either like or dislike the behavior, but not hate them. Blame the source and behavior, not the person; the actions can be corrected when they need to be, no reason to hate the whole person or expect the person as a whole to adjust everything. The irony is, regardless, I am often vilified and hated as a whole, for things that don't even have anything to do with character, things like money, or appearances, or sexual preferences, or community status, etc.

I guess no matter how good you are there will always be folks who would rather blame you, than hold themselves accountable and examine what's around them or happened in their own life to make them that way; 'immune' and 'perfect, prideful' and 'above growth and change'