Hiya's. I personally believe that's the body type I want too, but I can give you the few other names I've seen, one being an inter-sex male, and the other, one I find fairly humorous/intriguing, Vagentlemen.

I personally don't know what people have been saying about the term, but to me, so long as it's not being said in a harmful, in insulting way, I'm fine with using it. I won't be intentionally bothering people by using that word, but I also don't want to be living my entire life walking on eggshells, having to worry about every single thing I can ever do/say. I do that enough already, without adding even more words onto the 'don't say' pile. (And that pile is pretty large for me already.)

If you might be able to help teach me what's so bad/derogatory about the term, or show me the peoples who are talking about it, I would appreciate more clarity on it. Still, hope those two suggestions might help, and hope you're doing well.

Yea thanks, I recently met someone who also found intersex to be offensive so I am going to stay away from labels entirely! <3

I mean, if you're going to be going that route, then why speak at all? From my point of view, eventually everything and anything is going to offend *someone,* and then what can you say? You do you darling, I stay away from my chosen words because they make me, personally, uncomfortable to say, either because I know it's not right, because people will take offence, or just because it makes me uncomfortable. Just make sure you're not censoring yourself to try and please everyone, because you can't please everyone, and in doing that, you limit/block your own freedom of expression.

(I ramble a lot and just type out stuff as I think it, so if none of that made sense, that's why.)

I came across soemone who posted a journal about this topic and they were a transexual themselves. I asked what the correct way to label things is and they said "intersex". So anyone that takes offence just ask them for a better word.

I think the problem isn't with the sexual identification itself but rather the spelling of the word. i.e. the word cunt being generally used as a cursed or demoting word which makes the identification rather unappealing and demoting.

Idk that is just the sum-up of what I have of the topic, although I agree with the statement.

Yea that is certainly part of the issue!

*super supportive sergal!!*

As a white cis-gendered male, my opinion is neither wanted nor valid. You do you!

Huh. It's been on my mind for a while too - I changed my profile a few weeks ago, but thanks to you I've now explained myself a bit. You might find it helpful: https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/8312474/

Nice, yea I do like the simplicity of queer ^.=.^