spectrafox Brianna and I have FINALLY decided, after 14 years of being together, to get legally hitched for the rest of our lives!

The date of the wedding will be April 25, 2020, here in Rochester, MN. Official invites will go out in due time, but, for those of you who think you'd like to attend, and aren't sure if you'd get an invite from us, please, feel free to IM me on here or email me, and we can discuss. I'm pretty open to anyone who wants to come, and we don't expect any gifts or anything, just the pleasure of your company for an afternoon and evening.

Now, since we can't afford a whole lot, this will not be a big fancy affair. I'm looking into booking a small but nice local hotel and banquet room for the wedding and reception/dance, and will therefore have hotel rooms available at reasonable prices. A lot of our friends live quite a ways off we realize, but there are a few close friends we would really really really be so happy if you could make it. i think you know who most of you are, but ask and I will be happy to tell. Also, I plan on inviting some of my close friends from work, as they are good friends too, and some of my newest friends, the local folks in the trans and rainbow communities that I have become close too in recent months.

We are also reaching out to both of our genetic families and inviting them to attend. My Mom has already started she cannot because of her age and difficulties in traveling at age 87, which I understand. Most of my family will be in similar situations sadly. Therefore, I m hoping to be able to Livestream the wedding itself, and parts of the reception too, and record as much as possible and later upload to YouTube.

Also, I'm very happy to announce that my dear heart sister/partner Jade  fyremane Foxx has volunteered to become an ordained person and perform our ceremony with us, and for this I am eternally happy and grateful. She means as much to me as Brianna and I am so happy she has asked and is wanting to be included with us on this happy happy day! This old gal is going to be in happy tears for a long day I fear. I think I need to invest heavily in some grade A waterproof mascara for sure!